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Thursday, 05 November 2009
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Snooping! Never OKAY, so stop!
Snooping! To me it's just plan wrong and there really isn't anyway to justify looking through someone else's private things including their phone/text messages, myspace/facebook messages. I do say that if you have strong suspicions that your partner is cheating on you, then you have the right to look for CLUES and more INFO as to whether or not they are cheating in an attempt to prevent getting PHYSICALLY hurt by them possibly getting an STD and bringing it home to you. But full on snooping, no matter the reason is not excusable, no matter what.
People who snoop are USUALLY, just immature, jealous, insecure little sneaks who can't handle that they don't know everything about their partner, want to be the ONLY person they have in their live and freak out if they talk to someone else or what ONE night away automatically means cheating in their insecure little heads.
My partner and I have all the passwords to any and all accounts, except this one. I have told him that if he wants to know what is on it, come to me and I will show him, don't just look for it. He knows this is my ONE private thing, I tell him about things I write about on here and leave it signed in when I leave and he is here alone. I'm not hiding anything, but we don't read each others messages. His closest friend right now is a girl he works with, I know he talks to her about our problems, yet I would still NEVER pick up his phone and read a text from her, even though I know that most of the time it is a JOKE text and nothing more or her bitching about her husband and kids or the place they work. We log in to each others accounts and see messages from other people and NEVER click on them, pick up phones with messages on them and don't read them. We are able to, because we trust each other, but the message may be private, not private between me and him, but from the sender to us. Their is still a thing called PRIVACY!
I would love to know what goes through someones head when they can sit there and say that snooping is okay. So help me, if you or someone you know is a snoop, tell me how you justify it.
Saturday, 17 October 2009
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I'm pretty, I'm thin, I'm smart...
I come across blogs and questions on various sites where you have some girl listing all these "qualities" about herself, and then ask why don't men like her or why doesn't she have any friends. Are you really that stupid? Nobody cares in the end how pretty, thin, smart, attractive, sexy, witty, fun, outgoing, you THINK you are, if you are posting all this stuff about yourself and whining online about it, I would guess either you aren't as great as you think you are or your attitude sucks so badly that nobody cares to be around you.
There is a difference between being confident and cocky.
Tuesday, 13 October 2009
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Gone too far
When DJ AM died, I didn't care , the man survived a plan crash and then a year later OD'ed, how fucking stupid can you get? I know he was an addict, I am in recovery and have been for years. I started using when I was 13, first pills, pot and alcohol, then harder drugs and MORE drinking, by the time I was 16 I couldn't get up without some kind of Upper, couldn't sleep without some kind of downer unless I crashed or passed out. I missed so much school in one semester that they kicked me out! My parents got me back in, and I was on academic probation for the rest of the year.
I didn't go to college right out of high school because I didn't know HOW I would get my drugs and that was the most important thing in my life!
So I fully know what it's like to be an addict, you are never fully recovered because ANYTHING can set you back and cause you to use again. I wish I could make stupid people who throw around the words "addict" and "addiction" actually understand what it is like and NOT EVERYTHING is an addiction. I have heard lately how "anorexics and bulimics are addicted to FOOD, lol. One, I don't know that you can actually call either of those addicts but they surely aren't addicted to FOOD, especially anorexics, if you want to classify them as anything it would be addicted to CONTROL. Overeaters are addicted to FOOD.
Addicts have NO CONTROL over their addiction, many want to stop, it's very painful, both physically and mentally to be an addict, when you want to get sober.
And any treatment centers I was every involved with, you first worked with your own addiction one on one with councilors and group with people with the same or similar addictions, then a mix of them. I have worked with alcoholics, drug addicts, gamblers, and one sex addict, even overeaters, but never anorexics or bulimics they had their own "world" because they aren't addicts, at least not in the same sense.
So DJ AM died, supposedly because he felt guilty that he lived when others died, and that caused his addiction to be worse. But before his death he worked with MTV to help get other addicts clean, I saw the promo for it today, and finally felt empathy for him. I still think he was stupid, but I understand the life of an addict, and I saw how he TRIED to help others even if he couldn't help himself.
The show started airing on Oct. 12, I just hope, in light of his death now maybe he can truly reach those addicts.
Here is the link to a promo for the show: http://bit.ly/16ixJC
Saturday, 10 October 2009
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Is there a link between unhealthy food choice and economy level?
For several years I was a checker in a grocery store, so I saw some very interesting purchases. I also noticed trends with people and economy level.
All economy levels buy various levels of junk food and health food. That's pretty much a given.
The store I worked in was a mid to high end store, where we bagged the groceries for the customers. During the time I worked there one very obvious trend and everyone noticed it and we would talk about. Those getting public assistance had the worst food buying habits. The people on food stamps would buy tons of junk food, ice cream, cookies, cakes, chips, and almost none or very little fresh produce, fresh meats or other health foods. And when they did, and the bill went over what they had in food stamps the foods that went back where the produce and meats, only giving up the candy and chips WHEN they had to.
I'm not saying that those that weren't getting aide bought health food, and didn't but junk food or that those on aide ALL shopped this way, but it was a trend.
And I understand that sometimes it's easier and cheaper to buy ready made food and junk over fresh meat and produce that you have to fix yourself, but why do they eat so much junk food?
So I wonder is there a link between economic level and the way we eat? Should the government get involved and make sure those getting assistance are eating better foods?
Friday, 09 October 2009
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Fakers and posers:get your own style!
I don't care what style you are, dress how you want, just be real. The outside, what you present to the world needs to match your personality, the things you like and don't like. All of it should basically match.
What I hate are people who don't like something until it is popular, then they are all over it. Those that put down and mock something and then a few months later deem it "cool" enough for them. Yet those some fake people then claim that the original people who liked it first copied them, have no style, etc...
And you can tell when something is popular, especially with girls. Piercings started out as a PUNK and METAL thing, when I started getting piercings girls I knew put them down, and called me a freak, a loser for having them. Then they deemed NAVAL rings cool, lol so all the little fake poser preps in my high school all had their naval pierced, that one was okay, all others were still stupid in their eyes. Then it moved on over the years as to what they deemed to be popular and acceptable to have pierced. Walk into any major event, concert or sporting event, or your local mall. And look at you typical female aged about 25-30 and under, and the closer to 18-21 the more you will see it. Girls that have TWO very common piercings, a nose piercing and a lip piercing, usually a little diamond stud. Now if you watch people the way I do, and for my job I have to be able read a person, read body language, so I have gotten very good at it. One thing I have noticed about about 50% or so of these girls, they aren't the normal type to get piercings or tattoos. I would bet that a few months ago these girls where mocking others for those very same piercings, and now suddenly they are cool enough to have, and in a few months they will take them out and move on the next "fad" piercing place, you see, last year it was the septum, and before that it was lip with a HOOP, and before that was eyebrow, before that tongue.
See these girls only keep the piercings as long as it's "cool" to have them. lol, they claim to have gotten sick or it or bored. Then why is it that you have had exactly ALL the same "fad" piercings at exactly thr right time!?
They do it with clothes, tattoos, music, with everything. Maybe it is because I have always been the "unique" one, always a bit weird, but never an outcast or geek/nerd, that seeing people "steal" styles that aren't them, that don't suit them, that they should just leave alone bothers me.
I see these people as thieves, it wasn't YOUR style, it belonged to whichever group first, so leave it alone. Maybe it's because not only to they steal someone else's style, they then claim it as their own, and call others followers, maybe it's because the mocked it first, and then it became good enough. Maybe I just can't stand people who aren't REAL, fakers, posers, wanna-bes.
And what these posers don't get, we see through them and know they are so fake it's not funny.
Why be that way, why not be your self and STICK to your own style and stop stealing from other groups. Punks have a look, metal heads have a look, preps have a look, etc... Your outside should match your inside and we can tell when it doesn't.
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